30 Years ago this Valentine’s Day, Joel & I got engaged on a ski lift in NY with the temperature at -8 degrees. But it was so magical, I will never forget it!
We were married the following October 1987 and the journey began. What started off like a fairy tale proceeded to become a nightmare. Within a matter of a couple of years, bitterness, resentment started to take root from all the unresolved conflicts in our relationship. Just little things at first, you know the toilet seat up, the dinner preparation, timing and tone in communication issues, you know what I mean.
Though we outwardly looked like we had it all together and were often referred to as “the perfect couple’, we both knew the cracks in the foundation were growing with each disagreement that ended poorly.
It was obvious we were so ill equipped for a meaningful & intimate relationship, in spite of the fact that we’d known each other for nearly 17 years and had so much in common.
Well to our shame, within 6 years we were both ready to call it quits, living double lives of deceit in order to pacify our angst.
What a sad reality, that we loved each other but did not have the tools to reconcile differences. I certainly did not learn them in school or from my family growing up, or any therapy or church. So sad.
Thank God, however, that we met someone that introduced us to some very caring people who showed us step by step how to resolve conflict, forgive one another, reconcile and create true intimacy. What a gift!!!
That gift saved our marriage, allowed us to have 2 beautiful daughters, and create careers that have taught 1000s of others the same relationship saving skills all across the world. We will be forever grateful.
And as you read this, Joel & I are away celebrating on a romantic getaway & planning how to gift this to many many more.
In honor of this occasion, we want to offer our services to create the relationship of your dreams at a highly discounted price for any that sign up during the month of February for The Rewired Experience(TRX) (a 3 day immersive experience that will radically change your trajectory of your relationship)
Our couples’ immersions (TRX) are normally $5000/couple for 3 day intensive transformative experience here in the beautiful Santa Monica mountains.
But we are offering that same experience for ONLY $2500.
Isn’t your marriage or relationship worth 3 days and $2500?
Here are a couple of case studies from this year:
Case Study #1 (from April 2016) Before beginning work with TPG, this couple after 20 years of marriage was teetering on the verge of divorce. With many issues that had rocked the very foundation of their marriage and family, reconciliation & closeness seemed absolutely unattainable. Bitterness over years of unresolved conflicts & unchanged behavior patterns had caused an unimaginable rift. After working with TPG first thru a 3 day immersion(The Rewired Experience) everything shifted and hope opened a pathway. Then the continued work over the next year t brought their marriage and family to safety and the promise of even greater times together. As a result of the newfound security, the husband was able to focus on his company with greater efficiency, onboard new clients & new employees creating such a renewed confidence and boost professionally and financially, the likes of which he had not enjoyed in many years. And the wife was able to take responsibility for her own happiness, build her vision based on her strengths and values, becoming happier, more centered and more secure in herself and her marriage than she had ever been. She & her husband in victory, recently planned a month long trip together abroad to support both the wife’s new endeavor & celebrate the new chapter of their marriage. Here’s to their next 20 years together. May they be their best!
Case Study #2 (from January 2017) When this couple approached TPG, after 23 years of marriage they were living separately, had already begun the splitting up process after years of therapy and Christian counseling. They had just spent almost $10,000 in counseling and still were at their wits end. Both were so defeated & downcast; it was a palpable feeling even sitting in their presence or talking on the phone. But agreeing to give it one last shot, really more as a way to find their individual pathways forward than as a couple or a family, they flew out to LA to do our 3 day immersion (The Rewired Experience) with us. Sleeping in separate bedrooms, we worked with them to find their ‘3rd Option’ and truly we witnessed a miracle. The were able to move thru some very stubborn limiting beliefs that had haunted them both for years, forgive & reconcile such a history that most would have been taken out by 20 years earlier. They concluded their work with us by creating their own preferable futures. And on their flight back home, began dreaming about creating a joint venture, their own production company.
Just be honest. If you are frustrated, shut down or just feeling like you’re about to give up, then don’t wait for another argument to motivate you to do something just reply to this email right NOW to receive more info on The Rewired Experience & set up a FREE Strategy Call to see if this is right for you.
We are so grateful we learned these skills and get to celebrate 30 years together and want to share them with you too …what a life-changing gift.
Happy Valentine’s Day,
The Performance Group